Comments on: My 2009. http://lazyautumn.com/2010/01/my-2009/ lending words to my thoughts... Sat, 24 Apr 2010 03:04:45 +0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Shingo T http://lazyautumn.com/2010/01/my-2009/comment-page-1/#comment-169 Shingo T Mon, 01 Mar 2010 02:22:12 +0000 http://lazyautumn.com/?p=562#comment-169 Dropping a note here to see if you are still alive. <strong>autumn: Uncle T!!! yes, yes, very much alive!!! will be back... <em>soon</em>!!! :D</strong> Dropping a note here to see if you are still alive.

autumn: Uncle T!!! yes, yes, very much alive!!! will be back… soon!!! :D

]]> By: suituapui http://lazyautumn.com/2010/01/my-2009/comment-page-1/#comment-96 suituapui Thu, 07 Jan 2010 23:08:19 +0000 http://lazyautumn.com/?p=562#comment-96 Belated good wishes for the New Year. I do not have a 2009 review post. No need to look at the bridges that we're burning...time passes, we move on...and work at making it better...hopefully! <strong>autumn: thanks, stp, happy new year to you too =) nah, end-of-the-year review posts ain't compulsory, just compelled to recap it for the sake of memories. it's a form of motivation too ;)</strong> Belated good wishes for the New Year. I do not have a 2009 review post. No need to look at the bridges that we’re burning…time passes, we move on…and work at making it better…hopefully!

autumn: thanks, stp, happy new year to you too =) nah, end-of-the-year review posts ain’t compulsory, just compelled to recap it for the sake of memories. it’s a form of motivation too ;)

]]> By: cibol http://lazyautumn.com/2010/01/my-2009/comment-page-1/#comment-95 cibol Tue, 05 Jan 2010 23:20:14 +0000 http://lazyautumn.com/?p=562#comment-95 okay, maybe dun count the courting time lah .. so about 2 years plus .. ha ha ha. but i see a lot of my friends who are in LDR got married in the end. i guess that's the motivation. :p - i'm trying myself to write more and more. motivation would be, got people read. last time used to be "nuffnang give me money" <strong>autumn: =.=''' but still i salute you for being able to <em>court</em> from so far away, almost one year summor. ex would have given up in such circumstances had i not agreed to him before i came here *sob*<br /><br />i tink it boils down to each's characteristics too, me, i had issues with myself that let me felt too easily insecure with any relationship around me, especially my relationship with him. if we were and are both mature enough or cared enough for each other, i'm quite sure our LDR would have lasted.. T_T<br /><br />- lol, i can't agree with you more! =D we shouldn't do things for the sake of money, really, it takes the real meaning out of things. i'm trying to learn that.</strong> okay, maybe dun count the courting time lah .. so about 2 years plus .. ha ha ha.

but i see a lot of my friends who are in LDR got married in the end. i guess that’s the motivation. :p

- i’m trying myself to write more and more. motivation would be, got people read. last time used to be “nuffnang give me money”

autumn: =.=”’ but still i salute you for being able to court from so far away, almost one year summor. ex would have given up in such circumstances had i not agreed to him before i came here *sob*

i tink it boils down to each’s characteristics too, me, i had issues with myself that let me felt too easily insecure with any relationship around me, especially my relationship with him. if we were and are both mature enough or cared enough for each other, i’m quite sure our LDR would have lasted.. T_T

- lol, i can’t agree with you more! =D we shouldn’t do things for the sake of money, really, it takes the real meaning out of things. i’m trying to learn that.

]]> By: cibol http://lazyautumn.com/2010/01/my-2009/comment-page-1/#comment-94 cibol Tue, 05 Jan 2010 15:56:16 +0000 http://lazyautumn.com/?p=562#comment-94 you know what? I find that your blog posts are fantastic. It's like I can feel it. ha ha ha ... I've been in LDR for almost 3 years now. A lot of give and take la. i gave up life in KL and went back home. :) It takes a lot of energy ... ps : I just wrote a post - thanks for reminding .. ha ha ha <strong>autumn: <em>hallelujah, finally a post!</em> *big sigh of relief* XD XD<br /><br />*shy* thank you so much for the compliment *blush* but one thing i'm scared of compliments is... i'll share in a blog post lah XD XD<br /><br />wow, 3 years already, and i tot you've just started one or two years ago O.o yes, i <em>really</em> felt your post on <a href="http://thebankerrants.blogspot.com/2009/11/my-everything-distance.html" target="blank" rel="nofollow">LDR</a>, am <em>really</em> happy for you now =) as for me, i'd found it harder and harder to cope with as time went by due to loads of reasons. sigh.</strong> you know what? I find that your blog posts are fantastic. It’s like I can feel it. ha ha ha …

I’ve been in LDR for almost 3 years now. A lot of give and take la. i gave up life in KL and went back home. :)

It takes a lot of energy …

ps : I just wrote a post – thanks for reminding .. ha ha ha

autumn: hallelujah, finally a post! *big sigh of relief* XD XD

*shy* thank you so much for the compliment *blush* but one thing i’m scared of compliments is… i’ll share in a blog post lah XD XD

wow, 3 years already, and i tot you’ve just started one or two years ago O.o yes, i really felt your post on LDR, am really happy for you now =) as for me, i’d found it harder and harder to cope with as time went by due to loads of reasons. sigh.

]]> By: Shingo T http://lazyautumn.com/2010/01/my-2009/comment-page-1/#comment-92 Shingo T Mon, 04 Jan 2010 01:40:08 +0000 http://lazyautumn.com/?p=562#comment-92 How about a nickname change for a start to ending those lazy days? Something like AspiringAutumn or CoolAutumn? <strong>autumn: lazyautumn is just <em>too</em> me, i doubt i'll part with it anytime soon (plus i really love the sound of it, hehe) =P but actually, i've come to believe that the desire to change has to come from deep within me, past experiences have somehow proven that outward changes, pressures and influences don't really have that big of an effect on me, unfortunately.</strong> Sorry to hear about your misunderstanding with the older sister. Someday we will all grow old, and grudges will no longer matter. That's when we have achieved maturity in thought. It may happen 1 year later, 10 years later or 30 years later, but trust me. As long as you keep in touch with her, someday the 2 of you will be good sisters once again. <strong>autumn: sigh, the problem is, we've never been <em>good</em> sisters. sad huh. wouldn't be surprised if it <em>really</em> took us 30 years to really make peace with each other. she tried and i tried, but we just couldn't click long enough to have that elusive mutual sisterly understanding. i have my faults also loh, guess i'm just not mature enough to deal with it yet.</strong> The end is the start of a new beginning. If the long-term relationship doesn't work out, fret not. There's tons of available guys in your vicinity. You just have to keep your eyes wide open. Every end signifies a better understanding of yourself. You are a few steps closer towards knowing the kind of guy you REALLY want. <strong>autumn: *nod nod* but for the time being, i don't mind being single, other than all the peer pressure, you know, where everyone around you are in pairs. >.< </strong> Keep on blogging in 2010, really enjoy your writings. </strong><strong>autumn: it's one of my resolutions *cross fingers* thanks, and i myself enjoyed writing 'em out *big grin*</strong> Cheers Autumn gal. There's plenty of things to do in autumn, just don't idle the time away. Autumn last only so long and then the harsh winter comes. <strong>autumn: i really love this, just what i need now, thanks!! i shall bear it in mind.</strong> How about a nickname change for a start to ending those lazy days? Something like AspiringAutumn or CoolAutumn?

autumn: lazyautumn is just too me, i doubt i’ll part with it anytime soon (plus i really love the sound of it, hehe) =P but actually, i’ve come to believe that the desire to change has to come from deep within me, past experiences have somehow proven that outward changes, pressures and influences don’t really have that big of an effect on me, unfortunately.

Sorry to hear about your misunderstanding with the older sister. Someday we will all grow old, and grudges will no longer matter. That’s when we have achieved maturity in thought. It may happen 1 year later, 10 years later or 30 years later, but trust me. As long as you keep in touch with her, someday the 2 of you will be good sisters once again.

autumn: sigh, the problem is, we’ve never been good sisters. sad huh. wouldn’t be surprised if it really took us 30 years to really make peace with each other. she tried and i tried, but we just couldn’t click long enough to have that elusive mutual sisterly understanding. i have my faults also loh, guess i’m just not mature enough to deal with it yet.

The end is the start of a new beginning. If the long-term relationship doesn’t work out, fret not. There’s tons of available guys in your vicinity. You just have to keep your eyes wide open. Every end signifies a better understanding of yourself. You are a few steps closer towards knowing the kind of guy you REALLY want.

autumn: *nod nod* but for the time being, i don’t mind being single, other than all the peer pressure, you know, where everyone around you are in pairs. >.<

Keep on blogging in 2010, really enjoy your writings.

autumn: it’s one of my resolutions *cross fingers* thanks, and i myself enjoyed writing ‘em out *big grin*

Cheers Autumn gal. There’s plenty of things to do in autumn, just don’t idle the time away. Autumn last only so long and then the harsh winter comes.

autumn: i really love this, just what i need now, thanks!! i shall bear it in mind.

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